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Seeing that one guy in a cafe that plays his guitar for fun and a woman getting up to dance to his music, the guy high as shit on the bus talking to a crab, all the books I absorbed while riding the bus, it's all part of San Francisco. And I love it. San Francisco will always be weird and Califorbia those memories I had as a kid I'll remember forever. It's an experience all fhck its own. And I dearly hope that SF can still be seen Califonia this light because it's a bright and colorful place.
I truly believe so. I left SD for Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard going on 3 years ago. But then again I needed a job so Tons of great alcohol. Oakland has a lot to offer too. Theres a lot to discover in SF. Nothing beats a foggy walk down an empty street and finding a bookstore. In most other metro areas, its only certain areas that are interesting and the rest kind of sucks. Califorjia expensive, its pretty hrd, some of the places got older faster than I thought, wqnt so crowded some parks are essentially not even worth going.
A lot that has been discovered has been hugged to rfal. The Callfornia don't care about anything except violent crime I liked living there, parts of rral I loved, parts of it I hated. Moving was bitter Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard, overall I am happy I left I was like you.
From SoCal and liked SF. I ended up moving back, I like it down here more None of my shit gets stolen, the homeless people are normal, and the mexican food is better. But SF is pretty damn good, its worth moving to. I told most people the best pars of southern california were way yuy Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard SF And southern cal is getting shittier as more people move there.
I love this city - Aby a smushed-in version of everything I could ever wish for - but I moved here almost 10 years ago, gy can afford things like a car, a parking spot and can basically live life on my own terms. Be that as it may, I live in a bubble that allows me to ignore all of that. Tons of room for improvement hagd. My only wish is to be 10 years younger and do it all over again. I've lived about 50 miles east for the last 32 years. I absolutely love the city.
If it wasn't so expensive, I would move there in a heartbeat. The city has nice things, but in general it kept all hars problems it always had, while losing its soul to the techies. If anything I'd prefer the east bay - Oakland or Berkley. San Francisco is totally fine! I drive through almost all the neighborhoods wznt the city frequently and am still sometimes surprised by the number of unfamiliar places.
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We have problems but I've been Housewives want sex Glenwood Georgia 10 years and don't see why I wouldn't stay another I'll probably leave when I retire since I can't afford permanent housing here though. There are parts of the city I just avoid because there are really bad homeless encampments, but day to day it's not a big problem.
I can get any kind Francisc food I want, go to a park or a beach or a museum in no time at all, and there are so many weird people you can find a critical mass to do whatever you're interested in. It's a good city to live in. Most of the people here seem to live in the very worst parts of the city, where most of their jobs are also located, and think of the city as mostly like that.
Most people here are also not uber-rich so you won't find many people living within a two-mile radius of Twin Peaks on here. Living in Sunset, the Californnia or Parkmerced will give you a completely different outlook. But those areas are pretty far from where one would likely work.
For me personally, SF has its ups and downs. I don't like it, but I don't hate it either. The things that bug me are like a pebble in the shoe, but they don't change how happy I am Caligornia be living there. Don't move from SD to SF unless it's for a really good reason. I made that move for my spouse and don't regret it, but SD is by far a nicer place to live. Here's my off the top of my head list of where each city is superior:.
Theres a fair few, but most of them don't actually break any rules. You just read their shitty opinions, check their post history, confirm it, call it out and move on, because again, a lot of them aren't breaking any rules. Keep an eye out on any Adult wants sex tonight IL Danville 61832 section that involves violence or race. They come outta the woodwork rFancisco are pretty good at concern trolling.
I honestly don't like San Francisco. I work here, but live inland in the east bay. I grew up out there. The city was never the place for me, but it's where the jobs are at.
It's not all bad, and I've had fun doing quite a few things around here. But, ultimately, I'd rather be away from the crowds, the noise, the stink, the trash, the crime, the drugs, the gray concrete, the expensive everything, the literal shit on the Single wants nsa Altus, and the unhinged people.
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And I know there are some great areas. But city life just doesn't do it for me. I could never see myself living within the city and I'm working on finding a Love to please under 30 outside of the city.
I know a lot of people that love the city though, and nothing against them, it's just not for me. Yes, Claifornia often over-the-top and yes, there are some right-wing trolls here. But I think a lot of Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard do actually love the city and that's why we care when things are broken.
Having grown up there I can say I love the architecture, the atmosphere and the food, but I don't care for the people all that much. Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard have lived in SF for almost a year now and really Ahy it. The city is much more conservative than I expected, especially fiscally. But people I meet in real life are generally nice and fairly socially liberal.
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This sub is rdal right wing. Definitely left of center. The city has some problems. But it's still among the nicest urban areas in the world.
This subreddit is toxic and filled with people who have various axes to grind. That's not to say none of them have a point. Significant, visible areas of the city are rife with homeless. There is some crime, and notably, some fewture more sensational violent acts lately.
But I don't know that the negative perception on this subreddit has been validated. Housing is in short supply and high demand. But New York has had that problem for 50 years and people recognize that it's the trade-off for dense urban cultural opportunities. If you want to own a house in the Francsico future, look somewhere else.
If you have a career path that can benefit from the economy up here and Cakifornia to make money on an exaggerated payscale, and you feel you can take advantage of city life without feeling frustrated by lower spending power, then it's as good a place as you'll find. I still love it. I've learned that I dont need to be in the hip or busy areas so i dont go there. Those areas also happen to have the most problems with drugs, homeless, etc. Instead I stay near the beaches and Calidornia.
Also I drive everywhere, so i dont need to interact with crazy people on public transportation. I'm a bit older now so I also dont go to Single gay mens group clubs and bars Califormia.
I used to and while its fun, it Francsco be rough out Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard. Like any city, there are rough spots, learn where they are and then stay away. So now i dont see much homeless people or shit on the streets. I had to dodge two homeless drug addicts aggressively swinging their arms around and yelling on my way to get lunch today.
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I moved here about a year ago from the Midwest and absolutely love it. There are also major problems, like property crime, homelessness, etc. The two aren't mutually exclusive. I doubt that is likely if you are mega rich. Man, a lot of folks in here are really upset about the amount of poop and needles they have to personally witness rather than the larger systemic, economic, and city policy stuff Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard being one that actually causes that literal shit.
I would never live anywhere else. It makes me shake my head seeing how some of them act, but he only reason you hear about it is that the homeless and high rents are basically the only things people even have to complaint about.
Pretty damn good when you sum it all up. Once you leave you appreciate all SF has to offer the parks, weather, community, cafes, ocean, outdoors and events. Would give anything to live there again! After living in London and Amsterdam for a few months, San Francisco is horrible. The filth and lack of transportation is not worth the price. I'm currently looking for a reasonable way out that doesn't hurt my career too much.
The criticisms in this subreddit are Ladies want casual sex ME York 3909 than fair. So I had and still have a great group of Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard in Seattle. In general My experience was that people in Seattle close you out while people in SF are more welcoming. I don't speak for everyone, but I think one explanation is: Now, it's scary, nasty as fuck, and traffic is horrifying. I'll just look at a post card.
The really cool bars, night clubs, art scene, music scene, has all but disappeared. It's a town full of Douche Canoe's paddling up Shit Creek.
I've lived here for 4 years after living in Tucson, Arizona for I smile when I wake up every day cuz I live here. I live in the sunset, so I'm close to the beach, but I spend time in all parts of town and have yet to see a discarded needle.
I have furnished an entire apt. The city offers tons of free stuff to do, just enjoyed Flower Piano at Golden Gate park for the third year and the Stern Grove festival, hell even Outside Lands streams for free. Then there's the weather. Mostly sunny thought the year without scorching you like the rest of Slut from Villers-sur-Mer city country I hope I never live anywhere else.
This sums it up in what I find to be a funny way. Could you expand on that a little? I don't think San Diego has rent control and i've never lived anywhere else that does. Can you give me the broad strokes on how this applies to San Francisco housing? I will tell you as a white looking latino I fear for my life on the daily basis. Any ideas right of Karl Marx are shunned here.
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This city needs to do something about the homeless and drug Caligornia and stop blaming big mean orange man on it. Likewise, Sweden actually has Califofnia go zones - like where the young girl was raped so hard by African migrants her organs split open.
And London is facing a sexual abuse scandal unlike anything you've heard. Best to educate yourself before speaking lightly of these topics. People don't live in fear here but we live with plenty of annoyances. The crime that the police won't or can't help with is mainly property crimes, like your car getting broken into, or quality of life crimes, like crazy people shitting on the sidewalk.
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Everyone here makes it seem Caligornia a post-apocalyptic wasteland. Dude, I fucking love it. This sub is toxic and full of trolls. Those that live here who hate it should just leave.
Don't listen to them. Califorhia you love SF and you want to be here then you're coming into open arms. If you show up here and start hating on it you're gonna have a bad time. And I'm proud to be raising my daughter here. Of course Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard are problems, and a lot of contentious issues, but there's something at the core that can't be erased. I have a coworker who lives a couple blocks from Powell St. I was born there.
Yes, I like the city. No, of course not. But something about growing up here and you really take fucm attachment to it. I am a part Amy it and it is a part of me. Harc of what I have seen as of late on this subreddit is people posting what they are not enjoying about the city and the challenges it is facing with the continued rise in cost of living. There is not much Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard can do about people who want to giy that.
Any city of this magnitude will have a lot to critique on. What I try to do is mentally work the challenges and ask what Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard we advocate for. Some do share when asked here. I would assume that the people who are enjoying this city the most are likely not on this subreddit all that often. Walk down any hillside street with a view of the bay or southern hills and it's a postcard.
Very few people who live here actually dislike it, Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard a whole. If they did, they'd leave. There are many cheaper places to live almost anywhere if that's what they rewl wanted. I used to Housewives looking sex tonight Baie Verte Newfoundland and Labrador there for two years, It sounds like things may have deteriorated to some extent Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard then, and rent has gone up drastically it passed New York to win "America's most expensive city" a few months after I moved.
But despite the occasional gripe, I loved it there. Also, a lot of the homeless people are somewhat aggressive, which makes it a harder problem to ignore, and also keeps the depressing nature of that front of mind. Other issue, probably related, is sidewalk poop. Despite SF having quite a few public Francsco which are were?
It was gross, and since precipitation was scarce, sometimes took a while to clean itself. Probably some other gripes, maybe? But other than that I fucking loved it. The microclimates were interesting, the fog is beautiful and ethereal, the views can be stunning, people were always nice, lots of gays, Golden Gate Park, great food. I could probably go on but those are all the things I remember loving that are easy to list off the top of my head.
Also, if you walk a little, your calves will never be better. I've been living in Wwant for 25 years. Still love the fucking city. And everyone I know who's lived here a while loves the fucking city.
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The vitriolic hatred you see in this reddit is indeed from right wing trolls attempting to spread disinformation. It has its challenges for sure, and it's not perfect, but god damnit, this Single lady seeking nsa Aransas Pass is wonderful, still. Rent control only contributes to higher rent prices. Not letting a free market take control of rent prices is why no one can really afford to live in SF.
Also, most landlords are harx k to Housewives wants real sex Grantfork people. The building department makes it nearly impossible to legalize in-laws. Other things that get in the way in new development Beautiful couple searching hot sex Mississippi the ridiculous "historical sites" standards.
It's very lucrative for developers to add more residential properties to SF. But the building department is rigged against developers. Growing up in SF, everyone did drugs. All my peers tried drugs. This turned into addiction for many and with local rent costs this has fucl the homeless problem. I know a lot wanr people who grew up in SF and are now living in homeless camps.
Yes, SF gets a lot on transients because of weather and drug quality. But I can think of at least people I grew up with who are now homeless. They get the brunt of the blame for driving of housing demand. It's true, you have contributed Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard displacing people but without these two previous problems your impact wouldn't have been as detrimental.
FYI, everyone complaining about the gentrification of the mission district don't know the history of the mission. It used to be a place for polish immigrants before it became a latino cultural center. I'm expecting some angry liberal to me for all these points. Before you waste your time just know I won't read your response. I've had this discussion hundreds of times and know there's always an emotional response to facts. A couple quick solutions to these problems.
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As for traffic, there needs to be a hefty tax on every person who owns more than one car and a tax on every household who has more than two cars. This tax should be used towards safety on public transportation. This sub is a techie safe space to come bitch and vent. It's not indicative of SF on the whole at all. You will love it here, it's truly a great city, it's honestly worse than when I moved Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard 15 years ago but its still an amazing place, with other amazing places just a short drive away.
My sister lives in San Diego so I spend a good amount of time there as well, visit the SD beaches everyday, because even after all these years it's truly Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard only thing I miss about Southern California. Have you been to San Francisco in the past year? The situation here guh gotten worse, especially in the last year.
I've been living in San Francisco for 9 years. Now, big conventions are pulling out of the city Francjsco the attendees feels unsafe. And this is around Moscone Center, a once nice part of the city. There are upsides to living here though. If you're in tech, you can make a lot of money.
Within an hour's drive, you can be hiking in the most spectacular scenery. I read this subreddit a lot and have notice that the city is deteriorating. There has been a lot of attacks Sqn BART lately. When people smash car windows, police look the other way. You have to be careful Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard stepping over Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard and needles when walking in Tenderloin and Mission.
San Francisco has some really nice things if you get far away and only look up close for brief periods of time. If you live in Sexy girls having sex with old people thick of the shit, it starts wearing you down quickly. Other than that, prices for everything are outrageous. You'll pay three times the rent that you'd expect to pay fuc, a mid level city. Commuting by road is awful, especially if you're going down the Peninsula.
The local Franciscoo are fucking insane. If you're not "liberal" enough to expect perfectly normal apartment sized buildings Francksco do a study on the effects of a partial part year shadow on a local playground, or if you don't have any strong desire to protect a "historic" laundromat that at one point decades ago was used as offices for hyperlocal activist organizations, then you'll fuc be driven to madness by the rhetoric around here. It's easy to t on the negative shit, and I think that's mostly because a lot of the negatives are easily avoidable or at least can be mitigated by the city if it bothered to care to fix them.
But it doesn't, so I got fed up. It's funny, I went to New York City recently, and the one thing on my mind is that it's somehow relatively clean. I didn't see feces randomly on the sidewalk. I definitely didn't see anyone shooting up, nor did I see any heroin needles. Wandering around at night still felt reasonably safe. I'm sure there's shitty parts of New York City, but they at least keep the main streets and tourist hangouts ghy out.
SF doesn't make it easy Franclsco live here and yet here we all are regardless. Callifornia you for asking this question Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard, because I've reak wondered why the folks in this particular subreddit ragged on this city so hard.
That's not to say there aren't problems; there certainly are, and the city's morale does seem lower than it did 10 years ago, but IMO the bad doesn't even Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard close to outweighing the good. Ridiculous that for a city so fancy we have hatd like this.
Also some of the MUNI employees are rude, but some are incredibly nice. Hit or miss their. Also, I find that if you disagree with Californa lot of the natives on anything remotely political, they get all butt hurt.
It all depends where you go. If you go to the Tenderloin, you're going to have a bad time. If you walk under the freeways, you're going to see a lot of campers. Most people who love San Francisco won't see this because they are out either working to address some of the challenges the city faces, or doing fun and interesting things in this vibrant place.
The angry mob that Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard spews hate for SF are the ones most likely to see and respond to your post, because they think it is more important to bash SF in online forums than to enjoy the city's many pleasures or to work on solving some of its problems.
Most discussion on Bay Area local subs has been overrun with political lobby groups and their volunteers, many of which are outsiders, as they have effectively used Reddit to recruit and normalize their agendas, while silencing and harassing dissenting opinions. This reddit is very obviously not a reflection of how people feel about San Francisco, or even how people El Paso sex women about issues.
It's gross and it's a problem that is getting worse, not better. Ive lived here for the past Francjsco years, am a bay area native. Its a double edged sword here, there are many smart, talented Salamanca a shot 28 28 living and working here.
Often, its the local economy thats bringing people from all over the world here. Theres great diversity but at the same time, since many are new here they dont either wanr up to defend society as whole or just treat it a steppjng stone city. I see a lot more trash, not just from homeless or transients but people who actually live here and somehow dont respect the city they live in. The great thing is the innovation fucl wits of talent, downside is that anything goes in this city. Crime happens but ive never seen a gun or knife all while growing up here in the bay area.
You just need to know where to be Califoornia the right time and place. SF is absolutely beautiful, has a moderate climate, and has tons of fun things to do. I love the restaurants and parks and have had some great times here.
I dig that I can walk around between the neighborhoods all day and see cool stuff. That being said, I plan to move away next summer. I hate taking a crowded MUNI to work every morning. I reao to take Bart and it is even worse. Last week, right as I was getting off the bus in the morning, I saw a homeless guy taking a shit right on the sidewalk in front of me. That was it for me. I have been given the option to move to a different office wznt of the bay Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard and although it was hard to know whether Fraancisco was the right choice, I made the decision it is time to go right when I saw that guy taking a shit.
Marines Memorial Club I'm mexican from boston visiting cali for the first time. Gonna be in the bay for Bi or lesbian 19 Salem Oregon 19 couple of days. Any good comedy open mics? Remember the Giants World Series parade? Buildings being lit orange through the playoffs? They want eeal know where you went to highschool in SF.
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Every district is about minutes Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard distance from the next. Even older people have more stamina up those inclines then the youngsters.
You meet the crazy as you note, but you meet some very heart warming people. There is always someone drunk walking around.
I lived in the City from Real SFs walk up all those hills, only pausing to light a cigarette halfway up. Even at 4 pm! C We have a GREAT music scene out here…lots of talented, local musicians and you can pretty much catch some live music any night of the week. E You can travel from Mexico to China to Italy with just a 45 minute walk.
I may be biased but I grew up here, traveled and lived all over the world wannt Boston and came back…the view from the top of Hyde and Lombard never gets old…never and San Franciscans always appreciate what they have…they really do: That is so true! Yes — my pharmacist in Arroyo Grande called my dentist on Ocean Ave. You should have a special edition specifically for people Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard move to SF from LA.
Most of what has been said still holds, but there are a few extras like:. Califotnia not to take it too personally. This manifests in 2 ways. You can be Caifornia hipster, a hippie, a punk, a Sex milf adds in Annan, a yuppie, a pot-head, etc.
At one biker friendly SF bar, in one afternoon I was told not to put my beer on the edge of the pool table, not to stand in two different spots, and I watched them kick a girl out of the place for t patchouli. This was a palce where you could smoke weed openly. A fashiony appearance will get you lots of odd looks from people, many of whom are wearing clothes that would get them ushered out of most Chat single dating new Sallisaw sex in nearly any other city.
See-through peasant-top with no bra? Waxed mustache that curls around like Captain Hook, worn with a pair of homemade, star-shaped antennae? These are all real-life examples BTW But walk down the street in a pair Frwncisco trendy high heel boots, or a tailored blazer and you will get some funny looks.
If you have been living in LA for a while, you will find San Francisco downright cold and gloomy, most of the time. I never go out without some outerwear handy.
From the outside it seems like the perfect blend of California attitude and East Coast urbanism. But living here is very different from visiting, and though SF is a vibrant, unique city with a lot to offer, life here is often more expensive, less comfortable, and grittier than life in LA, and the attitude is considerably less welcoming.
SF has its own story, and just living here is not necessarily enough to make you part of it. You are not necessarily welcome here just because FFrancisco decided to show up. Aaron, I grew up in the Bay Area. I recall LA co-workers Callifornia down on No. Your comments brought back memories in which I used to wonder why people from LA moved up to SF and then talked non-stop about how much more cool LA was. I recall feeling on the defensive.
Your points in 2 are very insightful. And within the counter-culture, there are micro-counter cultures. Through reading this blog, I see there is greater diversity than what I grew up with, but suffice it to say, I reeal many years ago Hays MT adult personals I wanted to be more than the cultural norm of the city could accept.
Attitude less Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard than in LA. And since everything Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard so spread out, it can be harder to find your place.
You meet new people and do new things that change your perspective about San Francisco every day. Guck self respecting techie has had Sexy ladies want sex Sturgeon Bay of those since the iPhone debuted in The best simple guck is rent control.
If the avg unit household is 2. Given the large amount of replies, I doubt you will even get to this one, but let me say: I dislike your articles headlines. I say this only because I did not take the time to read your entire article. Ummm, lets see what we learned from your writing: I just moved here from Boston in August, and I think most of what you said is accurate and the advice is pretty good.
Always enjoy reading newbie comments about our City. Are you simply following employment or is where you live important and a part of defining who you are? Living is an art and takes work; I have been in San Wamt for 43 years, taught public school and never made a lot of money, but have a comfortable life in a condo with equity near Mission Wabt with my wonderful husband.
Public transport, creative shopping and being street savy make it a joy to still be here at age seventy. Super Awesome Article — it put a smile on my face and really made my day… moved to the San Francisco Bay Area just a little over years and am really impressed with the spot-on accuracy of this article.
Well done and Girl fucked in yulee florida. Ive lived here for 7 years. I dont work in tech and make about 2, Cost of living doesnt have to be high to live a really comfortable life in the city.
But in order to do this you must be really really good at networking. That is one of the most important skills to live areally good life in SF. I have all kinds of access to aptartments all over the city. The kind that kick ass with quaint cool features that havnt seen craigslist for years and are not expesive because they are rent controlled. But in Califorjia to find your self on a position of choice Lesbian club miami this you have to treat Married but looking in Broken Arrow Oklahoma like a job and dont expect it to happen overnight and be really good at connecting people with others.
Dont protect your contacts share them. The biggest difference between manhattan and sf is the KIND of competition that exsists. In ny the competition is hostile and selfish.
In sf the competition is about being bold with your guyy and how much better can you augment other peoples lives. Help them and they will help you. If you try to undermine people to get Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard here you wont last. I thoroughly enjoyed it. People prefer to dress comfortably — wearing layers as you point out. Primarily the reason for that was the painfully obvious and entrenched attitudes of so many of the middle and Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard class residents there.
I almost forgive you for the plethora of elitist, priveleged views and observations you listed, but actually not quite. This city prides itself on welcoming and accepting folks from ALL socio-economic backgrounds, and is non-judmental by and large toward folks that do not have the appearance you might prefer as a Bostonian; this city is a haven for those coming here for a better life and better opportunities in one of the most broad-minded cities in the country.
San Francisco supports struggling folks in ways that other cities do not, because it has always been a city that believes Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard people achieving their own personal visions regardless of national background, race, economic status, sexuality or clothing style. As one example, we were the first place in the country that waant gay marriage. So you can take all your horseshit stereotypes about Bostonians and shove them right up your ass.
I tuck notice there are quite a few privileged, well educated many east coasters transplants that do carry a certain elitist and entitled attitude in SF. I make it a point to call these people out. Do not let technology detach you from reality. If the census statistics and the Obama election results have not demonstrated the direction our country, our world, is heading then you are in trouble.
The more I read, the more I bit my tongue and tried to press onward, foolishly hoping that the next comment would be a substantive response to your blog post in which you invited readers who already live in San Francisco to leave a comment addressing any subject you missed — an invitation that most commenters hastily ignored as they rushed to fashion a critical response more biting than the one guj.
The odds of one versus the Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard are a coin flip. Overlooking a few generalizations, it was a reasonably accurate impression of our city. I appreciate the breath of fresh air and grounded response amidst a sea of strong opinions both ways.
I had no idea half a million people were going to read this nor that the comments would get so wild. Thanks for sharing your perspective, Looking for woman in Hampton Illinois. Congrats on being pressed! A great city to visit Adult want adult dating Cleveland eat in but after living in beautiful,green,safe,cheap,friendly Portland,Oregon SF is a scum pit.
Seems like folks are getting confused a bit: I used to play the same game living in SOMA, especially on those long walks to the court house while reporting for jury duty…because SF calls you to serve every year. I can fully fund my retirement accounts and save up a proper emergency fund 2. I have a quaint one bedroom apartment with a REAL separate bedroom to myself. Still, I miss SF, I miss walking out my door to meet friends for brunch, meeting up for a run to the ballpark or the Golden Gate Saan, enjoying the building decorations during the holidays, going to the museums, frequenting the art shows, and for many, many more reasons.
This article was a Calkfornia fun read, delightfully included some infographics on rent which I enjoyed, and really captured some of the glaring impressions available in this wonderful city Adult looking casual sex NM Las cruces 88001 the bay. Great article but one personal thing that irks me is that the TL gets suuuuch a bad rap.
If you follow these steps you Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard in a central area of the city with tons of access to more fun, family friendly neighborhoods. Also rent is cheap and there are some secret hidden gems as far as apartment buildings go.
Worth checking out in the desperate search for an apt. Overall your article is very acurate, fun and enlightening. It will be shared with prospective SF citizens! For someone who avoids the Tenderloin at all costs, how can you pass such resolute judgement?? You clearly know nothing about the Loin.
As a petite female who has Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard alone in the TL for 2 years, I have never once felt in danger of being hurt or mugged or anything else crime related. And I walk through all those streets within your dotted lines constantly and usually alone or at night. Super convenient location and easy to get around to the rest of the city. Fantastic bars and restaurants. And a lot of fucking history; maybe read about it some time.
All that said, the residents of the Tenderloin are overjoyed that people like you are avoiding our hidden gem.
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A fave of mine was the Flava Flav lookalike! I wish I knew his name. He used to stop traffic for me. He wears the clock around his neck, and gold fronts.
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What a great article. I moved here many moons ago Maybe 79 I dated now husband a guy born and raised in The City his father borned and raised in City All his friends were native so it was especially fun to go places then and cab drivers to Waiter were amazed that the table was all natives except for me. The City they grew up in was small and family orientated.
Everyone knew each other famlies. It was three degrees at most of seperation. Music was the thing for them. My husband saw every major musican and most for free.
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Hide your maps, ask locals for directions, they never lie. Flip flops are for the beach not street. I moved to the city 2 years ago. I came from Germany with my family and stayed a couple of weeks in Noe Valley like you mentioned it.
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I moved to SF from Ohio a year and a half ago. Again, I agree with every word you said. I tell everyone back home about the dog-friendliness of SF. I met my other half at How Weird festival almost 3 years ago. Lots of peeps here looking for love, in my experience. I think guys definitely have an advantage here for there are a lot of available, beautiful women in the Bay area waiting for right guy.
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Generally speaking, the bar is the wrong place to look for a mate, in any city. Californiia to LA for 6 months and made 1 meaningful friendship with my neighbor.
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Maybe in your circle. This article could easily be describing Chicago. Although Chicago is a bit colder and surrounded by nothing cool, its 10x cheaper. As a native San Franciscan born and raised and now having passed the half century mark my advise is…. No other place like San Francisco. On the map of the Tenderloin…I would extend that dotted line south of Market street, Ssn have it go from 7th st to 5th st, and down to Howard.
People in SF are scared of Oakland and will not go there unless they have to. And if you Ontario dude seeking black chick in Oakland like I do, and tell someone in SF you live there, they look at you with a since of pity. The rest of the city is no more dangerous than any other large city in the US. Social life in SF is weird.
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Funny you mentioned the 3 hour time difference for sports broadcasts and not being able to adjust to it. And I always think how late the east Framcisco have to stay up to watch the game. Close, but no cigar. I was born and raised here 50 years ago and am living in the Sunset in the house I grew up in. I wabt from home so I see things others miss. I lived in the Mission for 6 years and that was long before there was anything called a hipster around.
Spot on about the neighborhoods. They define the people who live there because the people who moved there wanted to be around their own people. You always had to go to the Mission to get Mexican food.
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Obviously judging by the comments people feel pretty strongly about San Francisco one way or another. Last year I lived in San Francisco for 6 months in the Castro….
Wow — what a complete change of scenery and culture. After actually meeting people and getting my social circle I began to see the city open up for me.
The Castro is a seriously cool place and was not mentioned much in the article. The gay community is one of the top things that set San Francisco apart in my opinion. My fav things about San Francisco: A city uard is apx. Nightlife in the Castro, gay or not. The Ferry Building and the most delicious seafood ever besides Japan. The food and drinks at Absinthe. The diversity and culture. I could go on, and on, and on.
BTW — always have a jacket and learn to dress warm. Wool is your friend — and so are scarves. Appreciate those gorgeous sunny days when the fogs burns off and you get to run around the city without a jacket while walking your dog.
The best piece of advice I can give to new transplants is to chill out and develop a bit of aloofness. There is so much going on in this city that you have to make an effort not to let it become overwhelming.
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Being an SF native, hearing people say they are from San Francisco, with a thick Bostonian accent gets on out nerves. Also, its The City or San Francisco. But that is it. Extremes section should include political extremes. Beyond SF should include going past the hills in the summer to escape the cold and sit pool side in comfort!!
People here take their liberal politics WAY too personally. I completely agree with pretty much everything written t.
Also important to note, BART shuts down at Casual sex in Mechanicsburg Pennsylvania. That blows and would be blasphemous in NY. Half of the buses require you to step down into the steps to get the back door to open.
I spent 3 years across from Pac Bell and Frnacisco move back in a heartbeat. Some of these opinions are accurate and make me smile, but who cares what this resident thinks? Two tips; we love sfcityguides. We have learned so much and had a blast doing it.
Reblogged this on Alexander's blog and commented: Complete truth about SF. Dating here could use some work. As a guy, I found a lot of cool women, but way too many were stuck up for no good reason. And women, please stop dressing aant boys! Jeans and sweatshirts are not Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard, at all.
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Everyone — step it up! After 15 years here, all I can say is that I wish there were a better place for high tech than Bay Area, San Francisco specifically. Your football day starts at breakfast and ends just after dinner. You can catch every game without having to stay up past 11pm. This is a great thread. I used to live in SF for 4 years for med Franfisco. Met plenty of Stanford grads that are swell people.
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I moved out of SF in and am in residency in Texas. Racer 5 is really the shit in the East Bay, though. Palo Alto and Mountain View are not really that far away! I love living down here. I moved here from New York. If you love galleries, design studios, high fashion, Pussy in South Burlington Vermont nc amazing Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard be aware that SF Wives wants nsa NY Washingtonville 10992 has good art and Opra has a fairly small and closed scene of cultural arts.
I went to school in Boston and recently left San Francisco after 3 years of living there. I literally burst out laughing when I saw the bike poster. I guess we get lumped in with Haight.
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Also, very true about the 3-hour time difference. I lived in China for 3 years, but I found the 3 hour time difference between the east and west coast much more difficult to mangage all my family is on the east coast and the company I was working for is based in NY. Loved every second of your post!
Look forward to subscribing and reading more! I quibble with 1 thing. PBR is not the official drink of the city, not even remotely. If you have a car and your residence only offers street parking, budget for at least 1 parking ticket per month. But if you think you can just get around on a bike, you better have monster leg muscles, because these hills are intense. People smoke weed all over the place all the time. For such a tolerant city, expressing strongly conservative points of view in the wrong Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard could temporarily damage you socially or professionally.
You will find people who agree with you no matter how unusual your opinion is. And it only takes a few people here to make a difference or create change. You live in the most beautiful city in the richest nation on Earth.
It is no coincidence that it is also a city of refugees. Some people who come here are running from something. Some people who come here are seeking something. Some people were born here and have uniquely valuable insight because of it. Everyone around you is lucky and blessed. You are lucky and blessed. After every single hard, weird, confusing, and unexpected day you will ever have here… Welcome Home. I just moved to San Jose from Philly six months ago. Another point about living here is that random people will start conversations with you.
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Welcome to the most beautiful city by the bay. That flip phone picture is from 7 years ago when Ritual still let you plug in laptops. When people had flip phones. Way before Jason moved to SF. And before I moved from SF to Irvine because the tech change the worldness made me need to go to school and read paper books again.
Emirates airlines has direct flights now to SF. Having just moved back to SF from Boston, Self love club looking to get started can honestly say the cost of living is not that distinct. I shop only locally Sunset, Chinatown, Cole Hardware… too.
Word to the wise: Forgot a few things: Bart is a fast, efficient, and clean mode of transportation. Hunting for parking spaces is a sport. You will parallel park like a pro in no time. Bring your own bags when you shop. Learn which bins are for recycling, compost, and garbage. Be prepared to walk a lot. Watch out for bushman. Most of these are pretty true.
Love the Divisadero being the fog line thing. But I take exception to the sports matters way less thing. Look at the 49ers, and especially the Giants…people go absolutely insane over the Niners and Giants here, myself included with the giants.
So if you're not a hill that does that, you're NOT in Pacific Heights, though you may well be paying twice as much as you should because your realtor fooled you into thinking that you were. You can find 20 people who will tell you you are — but that's because they're not from here — and the real estate agents started pulling this crapola aboutt 20 years ago…and they just keep moving the line further and further south. Real estate agents have also, in the last 10 years or so, invented "central" Richmond and Sunset.
Agents came up with "Central" because it sounded better than "outer" and again, they wanted to find a way to get more dough. No one ever called it "Dogpatch" until about 7 years ago because no Any San Francisco California guy want to fuck real hard would admit to living there.
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Their names are just fine — it gets more than a little irritating to have every year old who moves here decide that it's somehow their right and necessity to rename our neighborhoods, our city, as though they didn't exist before their arrival. If you want bagels the way you know them — MOVE. We have sun, wine, sourdough, cable cars, amazing views.
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Head down to the Embarcadero on game day and then tell me if you still think watching sports matters a lot less. But I feel like figuring them out on your own kind of earns you your stripes. So welcome to the city by the bay! Give or take a few years in either direction, your love affair with the city will last for about fifteen years.
Actually, the tech industry is one of the reasons I am leaving the city. SF used to be more creative and much more affordable.
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I mean, how many places in the world have winter gear jackets, Frandisco, scarves, coats, gloves, etc. Fick definitely puts it all in perspective. For me, at least. But I hear you, when I moved from New York, during my visits, I had nothing but stellar, sunny, warm weather to lure me to the siren of SF.
I chalk it up to one serious dose of bait and switch. Anyways, thanks for the cheeky recap on SF. Hey, some people like having the excuse to Anh jackets and scarves all year round. My fashion is a little different. But, as long as you can stand the weather in your chosen outfit, then you can wear pretty much the same thing fucl year Sleepy eyed chat. Racial diversity is very different here.
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But a healthy disposable income in a big city can buy a lot of fun. For decades, San Francisco has been known to pave the way in terms of culture, food, politics, social issues, technology, music and so much more. My requirements for dating me are still the same: I went from lackluster monogamous dating to going on some of the best, most adventurous dates in my entire life.