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It is absolute nonsense. I have found problems across the board and it is invariably those who have been around forever that make me feel the most uncomfortable and unwelcome. I got the nerd-grilling-and-gatekeeping treatment at my first Trek con in It was only mildly annoying at that first extremely small con, s it was certainly in-my-face at Philcon and Creation cons in the early 90s.

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