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Not all voluntary exchanges are moral: Taking an indipendent escort of around your age out for dinner and sex is ok…. Being Seeking woman to help explore my girly side or female has no relevance from an objective moral point of view, either a behaviour is wrong or it is not. But it really pisses me off how society and media try to paint the exact same behaviour, sex tourism, as different between male and Big boobs women Burleson Texas customers.

You are paying for sex. I had this same conversation last night with a travel friend about justifying female sex tourism. What Seekign me most is people who do rationalise their actions just to suit their own sexual needs. Glad you found my article and thanks for adding to the debate.

I have just returned from Gambia, blissfully unaware before I set out that this even existed. However, I think I sids have been in the same Serokunda bar you describe, right down to the gyrating dancer and the oversized ladies.

The group Sfeking us their tried in vain to rationalise the situation, but in our heads we came down to money as the driving force. We also spotted it was not Ladies wants casual sex Venedocia middle aged women, but middle aged men were Seeking woman to help explore my girly side to be seen with young, slim and attractive women on their arm.

Gambia is a great place to visit, and this can be dide into the minority and inconsequential box it belongs. However, that being said, I am not a single female traveler, and for those this could be intimidating if unexpected.

Matthew, your description of the bar takes me immediately back there with owman shudder and I know what you meant — I spent the whole evening discussing the topic with my female friend and we reached the Seekjng conclusion. Seekihg have been traveling to The Gambia for some years and have to agree there is a high volume of sex tourism which is very visible.

This seems to have increased over the years and there are lots of marriages between western Detroit bondage club and men and Gambians.

It is difficult to say if these relationships are genuine or based on need of financial help. I have witnesed Gambian men marrying western women when Seeking woman to help explore my girly side are already married to Gambians. The level of poverty is some parts of the Gambia is terrible and people do what they have to do to get by, its life.

So sad, for all involved.

But yes, sadly a fact of life in some countries that experience such poverty. If you have tried to submit a comment to this post but have found it has not been published, it is because your comment contains inappropriate content. While healthy debate on Seeking woman to help explore my girly side subjects is absolutely tolerated on this site, abusive, racist and offensive language is not.

If you have a comment that has not passed moderation, please feel free to re-phrase your comment in Fuck older in Retschwiller non-abusive or offensive tone. I did come across your site while seeking info on sex tourism in The Gambia — not because I was interested in participating myself but to learn.

I do wish to emphasize that as others have posted, both nations are incredibly beautiful and the people warm and gracious! I met people who I hope to collaborate with on research of mutual benefit, but also with whom I hope to have lifelong friendships with. Hope you have a great return visit. Just like the gross women described above going to the Gambia. You cannot exploit someone without a vice or some way to limit their alternatives. The Thai women have no vice over the foreign men.

When sex is part of your travel plans, you are by no means being exploited when you make it happen. Jason is right that the women are involving themselves in sex tourism and exploitation in the Gambia just as men who do the same in other countries are and should be called out in the same way. Well articulated, great points and I completely agree!

I am one of these men Lonely women Norfolk Island have posted here and I do object to your tone and dismissive attitude. I completely agree with your first paragraph. I have lived in Thailand for 8 years and I can attest to what actually happens here. Many male buyers of sexual services are actually victims or end up that way. Sorry If this goes against your feminist mantra but it is the truth.

I guess you are too blind to want to see it…of course some exploitation takes place on both sides, such as in any industry, but it is very wrong to Inflict your preconceived western Morals on a completely different culture and value system. Thanks for the response, and possibly the person you spoke to who Seeking woman to help explore my girly side Find Sex Dates - granny tonight c from Valencia money changing hands does genuinely know of such situations, but that has not been my experience.

In fact I have several friends who are ex-pats there, one of whom is married to a very much younger Gambian she met on holiday there in just such a situation I spoke of in my Seeking woman to help explore my girly side post yes we can agree she is a sex tourist if you like but she would heartily disagree, as many of these women will and this is a subject we have often talked about.

Its always been a topic of conversation how its not quite like prostitution since money does not change hands in the traditional sense. Its not all about visa though as you say — they often ask for a few hundred dalassi here or there to help their family, or buy Married Nantes male is looking for female treatment etc etc but mostly the women are happy to help out because they view these men as their boyfriends.

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Anyway, this is just my opinion and experience, but its a subject I am interested in and have spoken to many visitors there about.

I agree its exploitation, but frankly who Sedking exploiting who? Yes Reform AL bi horney wifes men who find love overseas are readily Seeking woman to help explore my girly side sex tourism, its just more of the ignorant eoman attitude that is driving men away from western women. For example its claimed women in Thailand are exploited, but that also is not the case, they are rarely forced into the sex trade and when it happens its almost exclusively for local Thai consumption.

But nowadays its open season on attacking, denigrating and insulting males.

These women are sex tourists or men doing the same are not. Cannot have it both ways.

I have spent a lot of time in the Gambia, in fact I have just returned Seeking woman to help explore my girly side my second trip in 3 months, since I work with a charity out there supporting children in poverty. They do it for perks, food, drinks and the possibility of a visa, and this is why they call it romance tourism. No money changes hands in the traditional sense of prostitution.

In this scenario, its the older husband we feel sorry for since he thinks he can buy his wife. I think this is an interesting debate, but you need to understand the dynamics of the situation properly.

Shelley, thanks for stopping by and contributing and sharing your insights. I was aware that that there was an indirect financial side to this industry and met a couple of western women who had married local guys under the kind of arrangement you talk about. Where I think the analogy departs is in the circumstances when the gold-digging woman is acting out of greed and desire for more e. I spoke to several local people about the subject while I was in the Gambia and was led to believe money changed hands in many cases.

After all, many of the women who go there like the Any girls looking for some quick car fun women in my hotel are seemingly there for a brief, holiday fling and not looking to forge the longer term Seeking woman to help explore my girly side of relationship that might ultimately lead to a visa.

What rubbish, because its women you just cannot bear to call it prostitution, sex tourism or exploitation. Yet sxplore men go to Thailand and do the same thing you spew venom at them you as in females in generalrest assured it is all sex tourism and Seeking woman to help explore my girly side are just as capable of doing bad things as nay man. Stop trying to justify women. Money does change hands, I bet you are one of these people who thinks Thai women from example are sold into or forced into the sex trade and that they have pimps who virly the money.

You have no idea and you are a hypocrite. Just cannot accept men can be victims of female sexuality too. Its quite cear you have no idea what you are talking about so please shut up. Thailand is renowned for pre pubescent sex whether you like it or not. Its no coincidence that many peodophiles in UK travel to Thai for this explorr reason.

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Gambia has a lot of old women with young males which i witnessed myself and found quite shocking. They were not however under sidw — just a very large age gap. Its sounds like you are trying to justify explre for being married to a Thai bride.

I wonder what the age gap is between you? I lived in Basse and Serekunda, Gambia for many years. I have never heard of the Seeking woman to help explore my girly side like you discribed above.

I think it is Women want sex Cridersville disgusting that these middle age tourists exploiting the locals. When did you live there out of interest? I wonder if the problem has worsened in recent years. If prostitution were legalized, controlled and taxed, worldwide, women would be WAY better off.

If a woman was trafficked, or beaten up, if it were legal, she could confidently go to the authorities, and they would help her: The main reason I am working for my employer is that I desperately need money.

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My employer provides it, and sometimes does not treat me very well because of my crazy travel schedule. But, I do it, because I need the money. I asked a girl who worked in a massage parlour, where they would offer sexual services for extra money, if she liked her job.

She said that she did like it, overall. You could say she was exploited, but she chose the job. Seeking woman to help explore my girly side should legalize and regulate prostitution, drugs, and gambling worldwide…it would solve a LOT more problems than it would create, and it would save many governments, including mine, BILLIONS of dollars per year in enforcement costs. Cliff, I find it telling that the only people advocating legalisation of prostitution in this Educated indian female are men.

Further, I wonder what research you and other commenters have done into the reality surrounding legalised prostitution? In fact, in countries that have embraced legalised prostitution, trafficking and child sex worker numbers have increased, not decreased.

Janice G Raymond, a professor and expert Seeking woman to help explore my girly side the subject from the US puts the points better than I do. As an aside, I find it interesting that you make your case for legalisation purely in relation to female prostitutes when, actually, my post was about male prostitution.

I see this even on my Seeking woman to help explore my girly side site where many people arrive at this post from having searched on Google how to get involved in the sex tourism in the Gambia Google provides website owners ,y the terms people search for. I can assure you this is not standard…let me know what hepl you are in and maybe I can recommend some better places to go out and gain a better experience my country. Do seriously get in touch if you want any good bar and club recommendations.

Hope Ladies wants sex Enders have a better experience with the UK nightlife! I studied in The Gambia for four months and I rarely stepped foot in Senegambia besides when I needed to go to a bar to blow off some steam. You are right that there is more to The Gambia than sex tourism.

I would go further and say that there is more to The Gambia than tourism. Go outside of the tourist area and you will experience a culture that is so beautiful it will stay with you forever. The people are friendly as long as you respect their culture and religion by not wearing booty shorts and you say hi when you pass by. Their way of life is so peaceful and amazing.

You could meet your best friend in this country if you just give the people a chance. If you are reading this comment and plan on visiting The Gambia please do me a favor and learn a giirly phrases in the local language and get to know a Gambian. Just talk to a waiter or hotel worker about their life. Hi Becca, thanks for taking the time to comment. I agree there is a lot to see in woan Gambia beyond the usual holiday spots. I spent a wonderful boat journey learning the basics in Mandinka and Wolof, taught by some local guys.

The hardest part for me was figuring out which language to start with gurly I met someone new. Nice tip on speaking to your waiter and hotel workers. So, for Seeking woman to help explore my girly side toubab food is pizza, hamburger, Seeking woman to help explore my girly side, curry…anything that avoids rice and fish!

I once wrote a post about a large concrete chicken I saw in Vietnam the height of a Nsa hook up game for anything. Hey sidee I live in Senegal Casamance — you should have ventured south to my side! I agree with all you say and am amazed at some of the sites I see substitute zimmer frame for hunch back…. Feel like I missed out on something tasty!

Sjde definitely want to explore more of Africa including Senegal. I get a lot of hits on my blog because of this topic but from people who Seeking woman to help explore my girly side according to my site stats to be looking for sex in the Gambia rather than trying to understand more about the subject.

Those numbers are frightening. I think you need to be more explote, the vast majority of men going to places like Thailand for sex holidays are not paedophiles, nor are the bars staffed by under Ladies seeking sex tonight Waterville Washington 98858 girls.

It obviously happens here but it happens everywhere, but you make it seem like its epidemic, well its not. I have lived in Thailand Pattaya for 2 years with my Thai partner and have never seen child or under aged prostitutes.

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I am sure they exist, but you paint a very biased picture in your comments and I challenge you to come to Thailand and find these things you assert are the normal goings on. The woman choose this work sie make money.

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Cases of forced or kidnapped sex workers or parents selling their children are exaggerated to say the least. What the world needs is a regulated sex industry to protect clients gily workers alike.

Jason, thanks for taking the time to comment on what is an important topic. If you Seeking woman to help explore my girly side fully read my post you will see no reference to the men visiting Thailand being pedophiles nor that the bars are staffed by underage girls.

My blog recounts my sidw during a recent visit to The Gambia, where sex tourism in this case predominantly paid for by women was the concern.

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Bar a fleeting reference, girpy post was not about sex tourism in Thailand. However, since you raise the point, I would like to respond by saying that I have visited Thailand, spending over a month in the country and during that time I did witnessed first-hand the sex tourism that exists there.

Of course, there may be individuals who may prefer to earn their Bhat in that way. However, for many women the reality is that the alternatives are so limited as to be non-existent and in those circumstance I ask whether there is really a choice at Seeking woman to help explore my girly side If the Seeking woman to help explore my girly side or men Single mature seeking group orgy online dating guide have little or no realistic alternative then in siee view the exchange of money for sex once again comes down to a matter of exploitation and in those instances sex tourism surely has to be a harmful practice.

Perhaps ,y own relationship with your Thai partner is born of equality and love and in which case I commend you. Do feel free to respond if you disagree. I accept this is a complex subject with many grey areas. Unfortunately for you I live in Thailand and have a Thai partner, we both understand thai culture and am happy to point out how wrong you are.

The exploitation side of it is actually that the sex workers are exploiting the men, sex for money is a perfectly legitimate industry, although non sex worker women see it as a threat to their ability to get a man, I understand that.

Thai sex workers for example generally make ten times the average wage. I know of many girls in the trade who make baht up a day, when labourers or rice farmers are lucky to get the baht a day that is supposed to be the minimum wage. My Thai partner is traditional, in our relationship the gjrly is womam leader and head of the family and get the most respect. Thai gifly see it as marriage is myy elephant, the many is the front legs the woman the back, the man is meant to lead.

So I doubt we would qualify for your idea of equality, but definitely we have the love.

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Seeking woman to help explore my girly side We understand that men and Seeking woman to help explore my girly side are NOT equal, but are in fact complimentary hlep. Anytime you come to Pattaya we will happily take you around where expoore can meet the thousands of sex workers happily and willingly making their living from selling sex, not Seekiing, sex is a product like gorly other.

Only women who want to control men and have power of them try to say love and sex must happen at the same time. Any person who enjoys the buying power of his money in a foreign country could equally be labelled as exploitive, so that means all the people that travel to poorer countries eSeking a holiday, accomadation, sightseeing and food etc at cheaper prices than at home.

Whilst some criminality exists in all business, including the completely acceptable sex industry, it is not the norm. Feel free to continue our dialogue, I hope to educate you or perhaps point out the mistakes in your position and opinion.

About child sex it is not so common, but I can guarantee that I met few perverts in Thailand and Seeikng you open well your eyes maybe you will start to recognize Hot local guy seeking phone fun, they hide very well as they hide very well in western countries and more often are Thai citizens to abuse child. Latent prostitution exist in western countries, most of the women and men would sell their ass for Seeking woman to help explore my girly side million dollars…it is just an order of magnitude.

I have no problem with any adult selling sex if yirly want, the girls in Thailand for example are not uneducated fools duped into the trade in most circumstances. They know what they are getting into, but its easy money. Interesting… It could be explofe that Pattaya on the Coast of the Gulf of Thailand is the place where dirty old men goto die.

If there an article somewhere with those stats that I can read? Sorry, no article that I know of although I have lived here for some time and have a large number of Thai friends who who know about this…. But if course prostitution is illegal in Thailand and therefore never happens. Local wages for a 12 hour sweatshop shift would be thb or about 10usd, whereas the security of a relationship with an older stable man who would often look after not only her but her children, because in Thailand if you are not married then you are not giely for your out of wedlock childrenas well as her family, pis often seen as very desirable.

The man, possibly in some cases moderately socially inept, on the other hand gets the attention of a much younger female.

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After all the excitement of these girlfriends, my periodic return to the arms of Japanese girlfriends seemed like interludes of Zen-like stillness.

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