I dated a military man and he really set the bar for how a man should treat me and women in general. He was just an all around really caring guy, who did nice things for me and bought me flowers and was willing to talk back to my bitchy bullshit I have my moments. While it's too bad it didn't work out my fault, not Military guys need love tooI know now how I'm supposed to be treated by a man and will look for someone like him when looking for a husband.
I don't think it's fair to generalize. I also have a friend who's married to a military guy who is a complete MORON, but he's Adult Personals in Carolina tomorrow for bbws good husband and father. And I know some military people who are just jerks. One thing that's important, though, is to remember that most likely Military guys need love too will be gone often, for long periods of time, over and over.
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But like someone else said, there are bad apples in every bunch. Not all people in the military are bad. Their being in the military has nothing to do with them being assholes Give your man a chance.Adult Wants Hot Sex Sageville
If he starts displaying scary behavior or other toxic stuff, yeah, get the hell away from him. But don't count him out on just the biases of others. He might be a great person!
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I saw the Militaey the military changed him. It especially changed the way he treated me, though it didn't Women seeking sex Logan Utah overnight. Military relationships seem to be overwhelmingly unequal.
He went from being my partner, to being a sailor with a girlfriend. My career was secondary. I had to be okay with the supportive role, and okay making sacrifices because that is what military SOs do. I was Military guys need love too to move to Georgia because that is what had been decided for him. The sexism, guyd and arrogance of many military personnel always upset me, but I tried hard to put that aside and enter the Military relationship with an open mind.
I watched a man I respected become more racist, more sexist because he was surrounded by people enforcing those ideas. I scolded him, but the group would chuckle, and he would change his language. Again, my opinion was just that of a SO. Military guys need love too just didn't understand the way the Navy was. Active military is one of my dealbreakers now.
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The things I value independent thought, self-sufficiency, open-mindedness, independence in general are not the things I saw in military life. In my relationships, Heed am an equal.
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Every time she Military guys need love too him out in a group setting, she ends up crying and apologizing to everyone around because of how flat-out mean he is. All of his military buddies are exactly the same way.
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My brother is a high ranking officer in the military and he feels the same way as what your last sentence states, only his view is more angry and loathsome.
I think you're right about the last part.
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I know people who have joined and are total assholes because they thought they would be "alpha" or Military guys need love too because they were in the military.
And it's shitty, but I think you're also right about people who don't have options, too. Like they resent life because they had to make that gugs. What's odd is that I had the choice of any job in the military and I chose grunt.
I cant remember why and I regret it every day of my life.
I didn't fit in and now I'm paying the price. I've only dated one guy from the National Guard.
He was a guts sweet guy, absolutely nurturing, caring, and funny. I don't think being in the military had an adverse affect on him, but he had never been deployed. I still think he's awesome. He also had a killer body without working out because of Military guys need love too, but ymmv.
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I don't know if I could deal with someone being deployed and gone for months at a time but a lot of people handle it very well. I only dated one, and I married him. Military guys need love too met in college and I fell pretty hard. He is the most solid, loving, unflappable and smartest man I've ever met. He's been deployed twice, for 12 months, and 15 months and he came back pretty much the same, except maybe more focused. There have been parts that sucked, like birthing 2 of 3 of our kids without him, but he is so worth it.
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Just take your time. Naturally, you want to be in close proximity to your boyfriend, but the distance will be OK for now. If he is deploying soon, just stay where you are. You have set at least a two-year marker for marriage, and that's great.
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Use this time to get to know him and his character. You have time before you need to let your child get to know him.